Have you kissed too many frogs? Discover that there are plenty more fish in the sea.

I spoke with a friend of mine who had recently ended a long term relationship and was embarking on entering the single scene again. She explained that when she was single before she kept meeting the same type of person. That person seemed initially lovely but there didn’t seem to be a spark or the person just wasn’t right for her. Also she mentioned that the previous relationships had been one sided. She said that she kept on asking why, why do I keep meeting these types of people?

Does that sound familiar to you? Or perhaps you have heard friends of colleagues saying something similar?

Perhaps you would like help to change these thoughts in order that you may find a person that is right for at this time. Maybe if you do change your thinking that you could find a long term partner?

I’ll give you an example of how powerful our minds are and how we can hypnotise ourselves in certain situations. Yes I did say hypnotise your self.

Are you aware of that voice in your head, often referred to your conscious thinking or thoughts? Yes…

Ok… have you ever been going out during the day or evening, you have been taking your time to get ready and for some reason the time has flown by, and you are going to be late for your appointment if you don’t get ready quicker?....yes… ok, so now imagine you are about to dash out the door, you need to find your keys so that you can lock the house and drive your car to your destination…can you find your keys…ERR NO.

Ok panic starts to set in and your conscious mind starts to say to you…”I cant find my keys”. You say it over and over again to yourself and perhaps you start using some expletives  and then ask your mind, “where have I put my keys…followed by a few more expletives.

What happens? You start to sprint round the house trying to find your keys…can you find them…ERR NO.

Here is an example of how you have been self hypnotizing yourself not to find your keys….your mind switches off and it doesn’t allow you to find them. This is learnt behaviour and for me I used to play this game so many times a week. However because I am now aware of my self hypnosis powers I am able to use my thoughts to benefit my experiences.

For you this could be similar in the way you look for your prospective partner. Perhaps you are self hypnostising your self to find the same types of personalities. Alternatively you may wish to find out the reasons why you keep finding the same types of partners, or maybe there is something else.

Hypnosis can help with these behaviours and if you would like help to break these patterns, this could lead to you kissing the frog that turns into to the prince or princess of your dreams.

However there are no guarantees that you will find the prince or princess of your dreams because it depends on how much you want to change your thoughts and behaviours. This is not a dating website, the work you will carry out with me is purely to become aware of the way you think, feel and behave with partners. Once you do become aware perhaps you can realize that you could make some changes that will benefit you.